Dating older woman 15 years
Our relationship isnt over sexed and i dont mommy him. the downside is my body was that of a twentyone year old when we met. Im not much for commitment and he is the only one that has ever outsmarted me and got me to commit.He had me convinced I was crazy and he was doing me a favor by 'taking care of me'. @siladan: i haven't went through all the posts so i'll comment a little bit later. But, what I really want to hear is a man's perspective from one who has been there for a while... Do these 20-30 yr olds still have the same love and committment after 20 years... Is there a guy out there who has lived this for a while? They've lived together, then on their own, and are planning to move in together again. Ohhhh my god why is it that a disgusting guy can date a women who is like 20 years younger then him(this it not new)come on people but when it's a female it's a problem..dad was dating a female like 21 and he was like 50 sumthing but for some reason she stuck around and I feel like when two people are in love it's ok...I thought I needed him and his 'love' until the last little exhibit of his 'affection' had me on the floor as he kicked me viciously. He seems quite devoted to her (not sure why, but he is). and as of right now i dont know the future between me and her. it's just so irattating to hear these negative comments.on people lets be real I came on this sight to get real sound advise because I am 32 going on 33 and i have met this guy he is 21 about to be 22 and we love each other he is defintly feeling me and I am feeling him SOOO WHAT!!! Many women stay in their abusive relationships and never leave but you did. Also, I was searching for a website like this to get others perspective on dating a younger man. I also was afraid of him leaving me for a younger woman but when you have someone who truly loves you,respect you and adore you that very thought is no longer an issue well at least for me it isn't. Please do not worry about your "Precious Love" leaving you. I am sure that he has thought out and chose to be with you. HE IS HERE TODAY LOVING YOU AND THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS. @helpman: you should make a decision as quickly as possible. It isn't a kind of situation where one option is right and the other one is wrong. That woman in the pirate look like the older woman that I'm in love with! actually quite frankly he mommy's me lol and keeps me in check. now i am showing my age more these days after me having a second child and well it bothers me but he has no problem wih it.He is a charming and brilliant narcisst who fools others into thinking he is the victim. It has helped reading about how great some of these relationships are, and how others cope with the age difference. BTW, I loved seeing the photos of the other two couples. She's quite difficult, but he treats her like gold. i never thoguht i'd ever get marreid till i met him! It’s uncomfortable for both, and there’s no way of having any kind of fun or spontaneous conversation. If the picture you have online is what she will see in person, don’t come walking in looking nothing like your photo, either being fifty pounds heavier, the photo was taken when you were twenty years younger.
BTW, he is a respected member of our community, a pillar in his church, a business owner with an income of well over a 100K a yr. The picture turned out smaller than I thought and hard to see.... my second son is 22, engaged to a 29yr old, getting married next year, and to see him happier than with any previous gf is great.as for my relationship and reaction from family, my kids are just happy to see me happy and be myself again.
Also, for safety sake, many women prefer making the first call.
If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn’t conform to the traditional old ways.
Again, it’s a turnon to a woman to have the man go out of his way to meet a woman. Same goes if you are going to meet at a certain time, and you are going to be late, text her and let her know. Neither one of you knows ahead of time where this will go. The most important is in getting to know one another, having fun, being honest and upfront. But once you go that route if you feel uncomfortable don’t do it. Give us at least some sample of what you look like. Please don’t make your profile sooooo long that it will totally bore us and even though you may look good, you will be passed by because of overwhelm. Most cases if a woman doesn’t respond to your first response, it means she’s not interested. Be aware that if we see something ain’t workin for us, but working for you and we can’t work it out, that’s probably the end of the relationship. If she’s desperate and is afraid of being alone, stay away, far, far away. She has had a lot of experience in having fun with children.
If she feels you are totally into learning about her that is a real turn on, especially if you have a sense of humor. Just like you don’t want someone to misrepresent themselves to you, don’t misrepresent to them. She will want to meet you in a public place and allow her to make arrangements to meet, mainly in her hood. If you can’t then text her and make a plan for another time. We know at this stage about not changing the other person but accepting them the way they are. If you have children, don’t be afraid of introducing her to them.